Fleur de Fense exists to help women move through the world alert, composed, and self-assured.
Our philosophy blends coaching, composure, and curated tools that help you stay grounded, alert, and in control of your personal space and peace.

Each emblem represents a core value of that journey:

  • The Open Eye: trust your intuition; it’s your first line of defense.

  • The Lotus & Flame: inner calm that keeps your power steady.

  • The Whistle & Wing: practical tools that empower you to act with assurance.

Together, they form the Fleur de Fense mindset of grace under pressure, strength in awareness, and beauty in self-possession.

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